Choose to Be Curious

Curiosity & Dating, with Tim Molnar

“Curiosity really is the foundation of everything I do,” says dating coach Tim Molnar. “In coaching, I’m constantly asking clients to notice their patterns — not to judge them, but to get curious about them…”

Tim blends social science and statistical scholarship with both personal experience and practical suggestions in hopes of transforming how people approach modern dating.

How can curiosity help in our dating lives? Tim has thoughts!

We explore research origins in “me-search”; getting curious about what is — or isn’t — actually working; second dates and old-school advantages of the exposure effect; running small experiments with our lives; rejection leading to success; curiosity practices to keep dating your partner; and why caring about green smoothies is so very, very attractive.

Episode webpage: https://lynnborton.com/2025/08/28/curiosity-dating-with-tim-molnar/